H.+Extended+Metaphor

I am a wave, I am going everywhere, but with no destination. I am gentle and soft, but destructive and unforgiving. I am a rolling whisper in the distance, but a loud crash and splash when I break. I am lost and do not know where I am, but the wind will always guide me. I am there to enjoy, but I disappear just as quickly as I came. I am small and unnoticeable, but I am big an visible to everything. I am there to carry, but I am there to knock over. I am beautiful and a pearl to the eye, but I am ugly and shunned. I am a wave